Wednesday, December 06, 2006

6 Months...

When we started this process we knew people were getting referrals (ie. when we recieve information on a child) 6 months after LID. Then travelling 6-8 weeks after accepting a referral. That should have been us - now. And we would have been travelling in January - probably around my Birthday.

But as you will know now, from my previous posts, the timeframe is holding at about 15 months from LID to referral. So we are not even half way there (and that assumes 15 months will hold and not get any longer). I am not angry, or frustrated, or upset. I am sad. I am sad that we will have another Christmas without our child, that I will have another Birthday (and Shane most likely will as well), that another Mothers Day will come and go - but most of all that we are losing precious time with our daughter.

On a positive note - the rumour front has a couple of nice things to hold on to. It seems that April 2006 LIDs are in the Review Room, and that there maybe a few new SWI's (Social Welfare Institutes - ie. Orphanages) signing onto the IA program... meaning more babies will find homes with families.

So here's to us Batch 45 - 6 months under our belt. Cheers!

xxx

5 Comments:

Blogger C's Mom said...

Congrats on 6 behind you. I know it is so unclear exactly how far in that is but it is, at least, six less of the long haul.

12:01 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Congratulations on the 6 month anniversary.

I just noticed you changed the name of your blog (or am I just slow on the uptake).

I think the problems is we thought we were booking on the supersonic Concorde service but they didn't tell us they had substituted a Dash 8 propellor plane on the service, which is still waiting for the tower to give it clearance to land!

2:44 PM  
Blogger Shannon said...

Yep...sad. That sums it up.

2:35 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hiya, I came across your blog through your post at the MSN Adopting From China group. I'm Emma, another Aussie... but much further behind in the process than you. Congratulations on six month LID! That seems so far away from us right now... we're still paperchasing.
Would it be okay to add you to our blog roll? It will be wonderful to follow your journey.

4:23 PM  
Blogger Family Bits said...

Lisa, it's hard..It's very hard to come to grips with the idea that you are still without your baby girl. Keep in mind though, that with the 15 month wait, it's very possible that your baby has not even been born yet, or was just recently born, and the youngest you can adopt them (on Gotcha day) is 7-8 months old. And if your child is already born, her dossier is not with CCAA yet. Your time just has not come yet. It will. And when it does, you will KNOW why you had to wait for her.
Hugs,
Karen

1:51 PM  

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